
International library, civil society, philanthropy pro Carol Erickson writes a thoughtful piece on the long-standing, under-acknowledged problem in philanthropy she calls the "donor deception dance."
This same problem happens here, among U.S. funders and U.S. grantees. Just last night, I had dinner with an long-time friend in town for "strategic planning" at a national organization to come up with a plan and evidence of having done "something" in the last year under an enormous grant from a Big Name Foundation. In preparation for a site visit from the program officer. In two days.
I doubt that organization is squandering cash. I'd bet that they are doing important work and that there was some kind of stumbling block that they maybe didn't feel "safe" discussing with the funder. Maybe (I honestly don't know about this particular case and am projecting) other projects moved up as strategic priorities for this year, maybe the staff can't--and shouldn't--deliver the project in the way the leadership (or grantwriter) envisioned, maybe they know that there's a better way to address the problem and they wish they had money for that, maybe this was more the funder's pet project than theirs. Maybe they simply need a little more time to plan.
But we've all been to that party, either on one side or the other:
• Dance Partner A: Harried nonprofit exec side, practically pushing to do so much on such limited margin, tempted to overpromise or restrict information and access to peers (let's be honest).
• Dance Partner B: Deliberate, thoughtful, safely salaried (let's be honest) foundation officer, academically pushing suggestions that no matter the intention, will be understood to be directives and wanting to hear and see only evidence of wild success.
We must be more honest with each other. We must be more open. We must see each other as peers--each side with resources and assets to put toward The Problems. But how? It's really hard. But I think it works, as with other relationships: building trust through real and personal interaction. Breaking bread.
This is where I would like to see (have always wanted to see) much the national organizations (like NCNA, Council on Foundations, Independent Sector, NCRP, the national foundations, the RAGs and affinity groups) facilitate more, deeper "networking" among Nonprofit Leaders (not "Grantees," not "Practitioners"), Foundation Officers, and Donors.
Dance party song for "donor deception," in which both funder and grantee want things to look better than they may actually be (scroll down the playlist until you find the Queen of Soul).
Photo by Yanik Cha.











